Posts Tagged ‘Desire’

Are You Fed Up Of All the New Year’s Talk?

At this time of year, the talk about New Year’s resolutions can be a bit much for some. Some of us are motivated by sudden bursts of goal setting and activity, while others hesitate to start as they know it will inevitably end in them feeling disappointed with themselves. Why do New Year’s resolutions often fail? How can you make 2012 a better year for you without setting yourself up for failure? Read the rest of this entry »

How To Be An Excellent Coaching Client!

The coaching relationship is a partnership set up between the coach and the coachee in order to create the transformation and improvement they want in their life, health, wellbeing, business, or other areas. While it may seem a little cheeky to suggest that the client needs to be excellent, it really is what makes all the difference! Of course, the coach needs to be an excellent coach and the coming together of this excellence is what creates the synergy that gets the desired results! In this question and answer article Melanie A. Forde will explore a few of the key elements that make an excellent client! Read the rest of this entry »

Do You See Only In Black and White?

Depression is something that permeates our society. According to the Mental Health Foundation, 1 in 4 adults will experience a mental health problem in the course of a year. They also state that mixed anxiety and depression is the most common mental health disorder in Britain. Do you suffer with depression? You may only suffer with it for a matter of weeks but the impact on your life can be great. One of the reasons is due to the black and white or all or nothing thinking that is characteristic of depression. Do you see only in black and white? Read the rest of this entry »

Do You Really Want What You Say You Want?

Is there something that you really want in life but feel that it eludes you? Do you talk a lot about what you want but not really take any action? Have you asked yourself whether you truly want what you say you want? There may be some internal conflict. Read the rest of this entry »

Are You Ready To Be Coached?

Do you have a strong desire to achieve in your life? Is there something in your life that you know you’ve been putting off doing and now is the time to sort it? Are you embarking on a new project and want support to ensure you stay on track? Whatever you reason for considering coaching, it pays to check that you are ready! Read the rest of this entry »

5 Steps To Develop Confidence

Confidence is a word we hear a lot about, but what does it really mean for you? Does your level of confidence hold you back? Do you feel that some people are just born confident? What can you do to develop your confidence further? Read the rest of this entry »

How To Motivate Yourself By Comparing!

Do you ever feel downhearted when you see the success of others? Think that you’re not good enough? Want to get motivated, but feel that you couldn’t do what you see others doing? These are common feelings. Instead of comparing yourself to others, compare yourself to your own potential! Read the rest of this entry »

Successful Relationships In The Face Of Limited Health

Often most problems are encountered within personal relationships. Relationships come under strain when we go through major life changes, and I think that limited health definitely counts as one! We may find maintaining relationships or starting new ones challenging. The relationship that we have with ourselves may also be challenging. Read the rest of this entry »

Resourcefulness Is All you Need to Live the Life you Want!

We are not all perfectionists, however it is common for many of us to feel that everything has to be in place before we can start living the life we want or go for that project we deeply desire to get stuck into. We may say things like, “When I’m earning enough money, I’ll start treating myself to a massage.” Or “When my self-confidence is really high, I’ll think about changing careers.” The trouble with this kind of thinking is that it pushes our desires off into the distance future without the stepping stones needed to get there. Now, you may be asking yourself: “So am I supposed to spend money I don’t have on a massage or leave my job without knowing what I’m doing? Well, not necessarily. You could, however, consider adjusting your perspective.

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What you think, You Are!

So many books are written on how to be the person you want to be. They tell us how to be beautiful, how to dress to look successful, how to be positive, how to make the opposite sex fall in love with you, etc etc. We often look outside of ourselves to try to find who we are and how we should behave, but what if the answer was within you? Your thoughts hold the key to being that person that you want to be, you just need to harness them. Read the rest of this entry »